Shirin Delsooz

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911 is not always the solution

September 25, 2011

I was riding my bike last week when I saw a senior lying on the floor, face down, squirming to get back up. I rushed to help him, not knowing how exactly. Would holding him up make things worse?

Upon closer inspection, I saw his cane by his side, along with his Wal-Mart tote bag, in it was a canned perservative. I tried to look into his eyes to see if he was conscious, instead I saw a small gash on his head. His hands were also bleeding. It was a terrifying sight, especially for me as I am faintish at the sight of blood. But I had to hold it together.

I was relieved to see someone else coming to the rescue. He tried to get him back up, but the old man was not able to get on his feet. “Are you okay? Are you okay?” His response was incoherent. My first instinct was to call 9-1-1. I’m not a doctor, but it didn’t appear that he needed to go to the hospital. He just tripped, it was just a small fall. I’m sure some polysporin, bandages, some rest, and the company of good friends was all he really needed. But he was not able to get up. Maybe his legs were broken? “Should I call 9-1-1?”

“Yes, I would call them,”

So I called them. I didn’t know what else to do. The dispatcher instructed me to not touch him unless he vomits, in which case I would have to turn him over. And so the 30 minute wait for the ambulance began, as I reassured the old man that everything will be fine. Oh everything will be fine! But I had a hard time believing that myself.

The “free” public health system is a nightmare. The villains are Mr. Wait, Mrs. Money, and the ring leader, Ms. Bureaucracy. The story starts with an ambulance. This ambulance usually comes late, and when it does, they charge patients $125 plus $1.75 per km. It would have been faster and cheaper to take a cab. (I’ll just mention here that ambulance fees for seniors over 65 are waived in Quebec, but only if you are in a stretcher “if warranted by the state of your health”. The old man didn’t need the stretcher though as you will see later in the story..). When they drop you off at the hospital, you will wait in a grim, colourless, room for hours, sometimes six or even eight hours before you get any medical attention. Needless to say, it’s a very miserable experience to live through.

As I was telling the old man that “everything will be fine.” and that the “ambulance were coming”. He struggled harder. “Don’t move!” I instructed him. But it was no use. He crawled and gripped onto a railing.

“Give me my cane! Give me my cane!” He yelled. So I gave him his cane.

As though it was a suspense film, the old man struggled, crawled, pushed, heaved, and finally got on his feet the second the ambulance came. So it looked like everything was fine, it’s just the bleeding that might have needed some bandages. The paramedic instructed him to go in the ambulance, but he refused. A team of three paramedics got in his face and tried to persuade him to go inside. He just wouldn’t go, his feet was down (literally).

“Is everything okay here?” I asked.

“Yes yes, we will take care of it.” said one of the paramedics.

And so I threw this old man into his responsibilty. The paramedic, knows with training and common sense, that the old man probably doesn’t necessarily need to see a doctor, and that bandages will do. But bureaucracy will tell him that he is not allowed to use discretion, and that he is liable. I left, I didn’t know if he actually did end up in the ambulance or not. But what we did all know was the solution, but we are too tied up to this system to make judgement calls and think for ourselves. And I probably made things worse by adding an ambulance bill to his plate…

 

Filed Under: Life Tagged With: ambulance bureaucracy

White Squirrel Sighting in Montreal!

August 19, 2011

This shot clearly proves that this white squirrel is in Parc Lafontaine, Montreal because you can see Théâtre de Verdure in the background.

With only a few rare sightings in Toronto, and other North American cities, I am proud to say that they also make Montreal their home!

This is big news since white squirrels aren’t known for being here! I saw this white squirrel in Parc Lafontaine one summer night and took as many pictures of it as I could with my cellphone. The images are not the best quality, but if you squint, you can clearly see its white glow and furry little tail. And you can also clearly see that it is in Parc Lafontaine because Théâtre de Verdure is in the background. I was not able to tell if it was white or an albino. It’s time to let the public know! I am going to write to the media and see if they buy the story! Readers, I will let you know what happens.

Another look at the white squirrel in Montreal. I took as many shots as I could!

 

Filed Under: Life Tagged With: albino squrrel, montreal, toronto, white squirrel

Iranian Water Fight 2011

August 16, 2011

Iranian Water FIght, Sunnybrook Park, Toronto

Who: Me, partner in crime, and many teenagers.

What: Iranian Water Fight 2011.

When: Saturday, August 13, 2011.

Where: Sunnybrook Park, Toronto.

Why: Because it’s fun! And for some, its also a political response to the water fight ban in Iran.

Loosely organized on Facebook with more than 450 RSVP’s, this event was sure to be grand. I like being part of viral movements that have meaning, and the weather was perfect!

There was a water fight in Iran recently that got many people arrested and made the news. It wasn’t far from different in Toronto. The Toronto police crashed the water fight because there was no permit and they threatened to make arrests. The group dispersed but later on re-congregated by the river. The police didn’t come back.

Highlights: Me and my partner in crime emptied our water bottle on an unsuspecting dude taking a break from the water fight. It was a pretty cheap move to gang up on one person, but funny at the same time! What’s cheaper is that we ran away as fast as we could. But promised to return next year, with maybe a few more to add to the gang!

Then Officer Ahmed crashed the party.

Filed Under: Life Tagged With: 2011, iranian water fight, persian water fight, sunnybrook park, toronto

Ethical Dilemma – Should I have opened my door?

August 9, 2011

This ethical dilemma came to me right outside Barfly last night. Two well-groomed teenage girls were holding up a sheet of bright white paper with Crayola markers writing, “Need place to stay”.

If someone legitimately had absolutely nowhere safe to spend the night, I don’t see the harm in letting them stay over my house. But I had the feeling these girls didn’t fit that profile.

“Where are you guys from?” I asked.

“Toronto,”

“Oh, where in Toronto?”

“Well, actually outside of Toronto,”

“Okay, where?”

“London,”

Then came the story…

“We are going to study at Concordia, and our rent starts on Sept. 1.”

It was late, but a flood of questions came to mind. You are only looking for a place to stay now at 2 am? What were you doing all day? Why didn’t you come to Montreal on Sept. 1 instead? Or at least arrange a place to stay before? Heard of couchsurfing.com? Why didn’t you call your parents and ask them to wire money? Did you tell them you were going to Montreal to beg strangers for a couch to crash on? Heard of human trafficking? You don’t even have $30 for a hostel? Can’t you sleep in the park, if it’s just a matter of ‘one night’? Before I could say anything, a sketchy slouching older man coming outside the bar enters the scene, gladly offering his friends house. The girls were ecstatic

I went back inside thinking about if I should do anything. All my friends there said not to get involved, but no matter what they say, a part of me will always feel like I should have.

Filed Under: Life Tagged With: opening door to a stranger

Flattened Oranges

April 30, 2011

A flat orange I picked up by mistake. And how couldn't I? There's no avoiding them!

Has anyone noticed as the years go by that oranges are getting more flat?

I have to run my hands through mountains of oranges until I can find a nice round one.

We can’t let food providers get away with it! But we do, among many other strange food practices (ex, gmo’s).  The least they could do is spare a few oranges from being stuffed and squashed in a cargo and sell it at a higher price. I wouldn’t be thrilled, but at least I can pay for food I can eat!

Filed Under: Business, Life Tagged With: cargo stuffing, flat oranges

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